Serious question on child abuse/parenting?

I wouldnt go so far as saying that its ual abuse (granted the toe sucking was in-appropriate) I would say that yes, it is very abusive, mostly verbal, seems like some physical but mostly done as a joke, well funny to him at least. If I were you i would get out as soon as you can, your mother should have gotten you both out years ago but she is most likely used to it by now and doesnt know what to do, but you need to go to college and get as far away as possible, and if i were you never look back. Its gonna be rough, but you can do it. Get an education and a job and live your life much happier without the prick being around. Good luck.