Major boyfriend advise help please?

okayyyy well ive been with my boyfriend for 13 months im 16 hes 17 and so hes always been the jealous type and he asked me to stop talking to guys and i did, he also stopped talkking to girls, but i kinda miss talking to guys not because imm interested in them but i just miss having them as friends because i get along better with guys, and recently hes been asking me not to hang out with my girlfriends either and ignore them when they say something to me and he hates my best friend that ive been friends with since 1st grade and were neighbors and we used to hang out all the time and he hates her because a while ago she got me into drinking and smoking and hes against that but i stopped doing that because he had a problem with it, like hes making me choose between him and everyone else that were my friends, he says i wont know them in a few years so whats the point and like we want to be together for a pretty long time because were in love and weve talked about getting married and having kids and we made a plan for a future together, so he says like youll know me in a few years not them theyll have their own lives and were have ours, like i really do love him and i would sacrifice anything for him i just dont think its right for him to be asking me to get rid of my girlfriends and ive tried talking to him about it and he gets mad because he thinks im choosing them over him but its not like that, should i just get rid of them since he has a problem with it and i should respect what he has problems with and like since i love him should i sacrifice this i just dont know what to do and i need advise what should i tell him, i really dont want to break up though