Any suggestions would be much appreciated.?

I have only ever had 1 real relationship, this was a 4 year relationship that ended when i was 21 years old, i am now 26 and have not been in a proper relationship since. i have bn on countless dates and have had a few ual partners (safe ), but for sum reason i never seem to meet any1 that i am realy attracted to, as sad as it sounds i crave female company so bad it hurts! i get lots ov attention from girls but never the ones that i like, sumtimes i think i may b a little intimidating as many of my family and friends have randomly commented that i hold a lot of presence, even if i dnt speak u kind of know that i am there! thats what they say? im not rude or forcefull, but if i do pluk up the courage to approach a nice girl, they always clam up and look uncomfortable, so naturally i will back off 2 save embarrement for both of us..... any idea what i can do to help???? p.s i dnt have bad breath,boogies up my nose, spots or any kind of poor personal hygene lol, i dress and hold myself well p.s im mixed race, half white half jamaican and unfortunately where i live the majority of girls that do like black boys are stinking!