Is this typical for men to be like this please don’t answer if your not going to be helpful ?

Personally, I would be a little cautious if he is already talking to you ually and you guys aren't even officially dating. Not that I don't think that exploring your uality isn't healthy, because it is. But just make sure that you also know what you want, be it to wait for until marriage or not. That needs to be a clear cut line for both you and him. Once that is made clear, I think things would be a go. Just remember, the mind of a young guy is thinking about ....a lot, so its relatively normal in that sense.